Stollen From @IamDevinJ

A friend of mine and I were discussing the “plight” of being single and he said something very interesting. A bit of a backstory for his advice is this: this friend of mine is particular fond of girls of a certain ethnicity and that was all he would date for the most part. However he always wondered why that was all he seemed to find when looking for a relationship. Recently though he stopped looking for girls of that specific ethnicity and started looking for qualities and he found that he was finding girls with the qualities that he wanted…the moral of the story is this: you get what you’re looking for. I.E: if you’re looking for intelligent then you’ll find that, if you’re looking for party girl or guy then you’ll find that, if you’re looking for sweet you’ll find that. These examples can apply to friendships as well. (Bre)evaluation: be careful what you look for ‘cause you may not need what you find =))

...Devin-Jay